Chores for Kids: From toddlers to teens (3–17 years)

Modak
October 3, 2025

Main takeaways

🧸 Young kids (3–5) can build responsibility through simple chores like putting away toys.

🧹 Pre-teens (9–12) develop independence with tasks like cooking simple meals and cleaning.

🔧 Teens (16–17) prepare for adulthood by managing bills, car care, and meal planning.

As kids grow, their ability to handle responsibilities increases. Chores for kids are more than just housework, they’re essential for teaching independence, time management, and teamwork.

This guide breaks down chores by age (3–17 years old), milestones to expect, and how to adapt tasks as children mature.

Whether you’re wondering “What chores should a 3-year-old do?” or “Should a 16-year-old still have chores?”, we’ve got you covered.

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Age-range breakdown: Chores for every stage

3–5 years old

At this stage, chores should be simple and supervised. The goal is to introduce responsibility.

Example chores for 3–4 year olds:

  • Put toys in a toy box
  • Help feed pets
  • Wipe tables or surfaces
  • Pick up clothes or shoes
  • Help set the table (with supervision)

Milestone:
Kids learn the importance of contributing to family life. Guidance helps build good habits.

6–8 years old

Children can now complete tasks with less supervision and follow simple multi-step instructions.

Example chores for 6–8 year olds:

  • Make their bed
  • Fold towels
  • Dust low surfaces
  • Take out small trash
  • Put away dishes (plastic cups, plates)
  • Water plants

Milestone:
They start developing problem-solving skills and can take initiative, though reminders are still needed.

9–12 years old

Pre-teens are ready for chores that require skill and responsibility.

Example chores for 9–12 year olds

  • Sweep and mop floors
  • Vacuum
  • Wash dishes
  • Prepare simple meals (sandwiches, salads)
  • Fold clothes and put them away
  • Clean bathroom sinks or mirrors
  • Help with grocery shopping and organizing food

Milestone:
Kids can manage tasks independently with light guidance. This stage reinforces efficiency and responsibility.

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13–15 years old

Teens can take on advanced chores that teach life skills for adulthood.

Example chores for 13–15 year olds

  • Cook full meals (breakfast, dinner)
  • Do laundry (wash, fold, iron)
  • Mow the lawn
  • Babysit younger siblings
  • Clean the garage or storage areas
  • Care for pets (feeding, walking)

Milestone:
By this age, teens should handle most household chores without reminders. They gain autonomy and time-management skills.

How Modak supports chore management

📲 Modak lets parents assign and track chores digitally across all age groups.

💳 Kids earn rewards and convert MBX points into real money through their Modak Visa® debit card.

🎯 Progress tracking and rewards in Modak motivate kids to stay consistent with their responsibilities.

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16–17 years old

Older teens are nearly adults. Their chores should prepare them for independent living.

Example chores for 16–17 Year olds:

  • Manage household bills (with supervision)
  • Plan and shop for meals
  • Organize personal spaces
  • Schedule appointments (doctor, school, etc.)
  • Perform basic car maintenance
  • Assist with home repairs or projects

Milestone:
Teens should manage tasks independently and balance chores with school and social life. This stage prepares them for adulthood.

Adjusting chores over time

  • Start Simple, Then Add Complexity: Begin with easy tasks, add harder ones as your child grows.
  • Incorporate Choice: Allow older kids to pick chores to boost motivation.
  • Use Visual Tools: Chore charts or apps like Modak make tracking easy.
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How Modak helps

  • Parents can assign and manage chores digitally.
  • Progress tracking reduces family stress.
  • Rewards motivate kids to stay consistent.

FAQs

What are age-appropriate chores for a 16-year-old?

A 16-year-old can handle tasks like managing bills (with supervision), grocery shopping, meal planning, car maintenance, and organizing personal spaces. These chores prepare them for independence.

Should a 17-year-old still have chores?

Yes. Chores for 17-year-olds teach responsibility and prepare them for adult life. Examples include managing finances, cooking meals, and maintaining their living space.

How can parents assign chores through the Modak app?

Parents can assign tasks by age and track completion through Modak. The app supports kids from toddlers to teens, providing reminders and rewarding progress.

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Chores across the ages

Chores aren’t just household tasks, they’re life lessons in responsibility, teamwork, and independence.

By adapting chores to each age, parents help kids grow into capable, confident young adults. Tools like Modak make it easier to assign, track, and reward progress along the way.

Start small, stay consistent, and watch your child build independence one chore at a time.

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